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Sometimes in a relationship we fail to recognize toxic behaviors; one of which is narcissism. Narcissist personality types can send red flags to unknowing loved ones, especially in marriage and polygyny. Men and women can both possess narcissistic personality traits. Some of which are the following:

• Inflated view of self
• Always giving advice while not thoroughly versed on topic
• Holds grudges
• Takes no accountability 
• Blame and shame individuals
• Lack true empathy

And much...

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I know that the title of this blog may cause some discomfort to many however, we must address the serious issues that can plague a winning team and in this instance, by winning team, I mean family. I've seen many women get involved with and marry men who are just not the right fit for their brand. The women may not have been sure about it at first but as time moves forward, they realize that they are not a right fit. That is not where the issues lie though. They lie within the fac...

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Have you ever thought about what your brand is as a co-wife? Being in polygyny can have its challenges and triumphs. One of the major challenges is our perception of who we are vs who we need to become as co-wives. Personal development is an important factor when you want to transform into the best version of yourself that you can be.

It promotes positive thinking and helps facilitate the organization of your priorities as a woman and a co-wife.

In this video, I discuss my perso...

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It's known that when you ask the right questions you will receive the right answers. When we are looking to improve on important parts of our lives we want to do the right things the right way, so asking the questions that can yield the results we desire is the first step in making that happen. I go into what some of those questions are and how to process the answers you may receive in this video. One of the questions I ask is, Why did I get married? This question allows us to rem...

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Celebrating yourself promotes the ability to take the time to be genuinely grateful for the blessings you have in your life. Of course, it isn't always easy to practice gratitude on a daily basis. However, it is a necessary element in order to reinforce personal development and growth! In this video, I reflect and discuss why it's important to celebrate yourself while showing gratitude.

Check out the video HERE!

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Living in a society where monogamy seems to be the state of the world, this topic may be a little off putting to some. Why do I say that? Well, because being part of a polygynous marriage has opened me as well as my family up to judgment and ill comments from those who don't understand or want to understand this form of marriage that is family focused and has been around longer than monogamy. We have had our share of negativity, however, there are many families who we have been ab...

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Celebrating with family is important to us all. I wanted to share a special day in which our family hosted a brunch and bond event where we shared lots of laughs, fun, and memories to celebrate Coach Nyla's birthday!

Often times co-wives may think they can't celebrate one another or with one another for that matter; but we definitely can with a proper mindset! 

What are some ways you can celebrate with your co-wife? 

In this video, I share my story of celebrating Coach Nyla's...

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I have just celebrated my co-wife, Coach Nyla, and her birthday! I had also met and spoken to her family. For some it's difficult to think of a co-wife as a separate individual due to sharing the same husband.

However, as always; they are a person with their own personality and traits and there's much more to them than that! In this video I talk about my experience and the celebration we had for Coach Nyla.

Check out the video HERE!

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Have you ever been in a relationship where something happened that broke your trust? Was there ever a time when you've broken someone's trust? We know that when it comes to trust, it can take a long time to build and a moment to break. That is why we must be true in being our best selves. Why? Because we attract who we are. If we are trustworthy, we will attract trustworthy people, if not...well, you know.

I'm not saying that we may not play the fool sometimes. By that, I mean...

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Have you ever felt overwhelmed by your mental clutter? And has it affected your spirituality? In this video, Coach Fatimah talks about her spiritual mental health journey and how "clearing out the spiritual and mental clutter" helped with her healing process. Just by adding some very critical practices in her daily routine.

- Rethinking your thinking and not assuming you have all the answers.
- Understanding that you cannot please everybody, so why try.
- Start to live life in the pres...