Many times in our lives we are going to face problems. Whether that be familial, financial, or otherwise; challenges are guaranteed within in our lifetime. However, when it becomes too much, who can you seek help from? Who can you turn to for guidance on how to solve these problems? In this video, I zero in on the importance of mentors & coaches, as well as facing difficulties.

Committed to helping you get your S.H.I.F.T. together,

Coach Nazir

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A fun, inexpensive way to spend time with your family is by building dream boards with one another. For those who are unsure of what dream/vision boards are, they are as follows: "A dream board or vision board is a collage of images, pictures, and affirmations of one's dreams and desires, designed to serve as a source of inspiration and motivation." In this vlog styled video, we discuss the importance of dream building with family and instruct on ways to create vision boards that are inspiration...

In today's society polygyny is considered taboo. Many people believe it's an easy way to 'legally cheat' on their wives, that it brings destruction to families, only benefits the husband, and much more. However, I disagree. In this video, I unapologetically share why polygyny needs to be normalized in the West ASAP! "

Committed to helping you get your S.H.I.F.T. together, 

Coach Nazir

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Salaam/Peace,

Healing from our past traumas is something we all must do in order to move forward to gain happiness and future success. Oftentimes we don't realize that if we wait to heal, we are actually prolonging the process; causing more pent up anger and possibly even rage. One of the most important things is especially the harmony that may come from our healing; inner peace is always priceless. In this video, I discuss how I discovered that waiting to heal placed much more "weight" on my s...

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Has there ever been a time, shoot, maybe multiple times, where you wished that your spouse was just a little different in some way? Have you ever thought to yourself, "maybe I can get him to change", or "if I did this, then he would be this way"? Has that ever worked for you? I know many of us may have these thoughts of wanting to change our spouse or spouses in some way or another and that is usually due to our selfish nature. Yes, I said it. In this video, I focus on the idea o...

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Whether you're monogamously married, married in polygyny, or single; life presents itself with many challenges. And with these challenges come and we always learn from them.

And this is especially true in polygyny; with this form of marriage, some may say there are even double the challenges and triumphs. 

In this video, Coaches Nyla, Nazir & Fatimah each share ONE thing they've learned in polygyny and the impact it has had in their lives.

Nyla, Nazir, & Fatimah

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Salaam/Peace,

A more than common occurrence in polygyny is choosing sides. Trying to pick whether the initial wife is the "victim" for her husband marrying another woman or if the incoming wife is a "homewrecker" for "intruding" in on a marriage, although her husband is practicing something that is permissible in Islam.

In this video, co-wives & Coaches Nyla and Fatimah have a discussion on pain in polygyny and the impact it has had in their lives.

You can watch the video HERE!

If you have ...

Salaam/Peace,

We have received many questions like: (jump to the video here)

• How do you find women interested in polygyny?
• What about the children?
• How do I deal with the stigma of being a "2nd" or subsequent wife?
• Do you live in the same house?
• How do I deal with jealousy?
• How can I help my wife understand why I want multiple wives?
• How much money do you need?
• What about feelings of guilt, betrayal, trauma?

We recorded a short video for you to check out HERE and we ask that you le...

Some people say that one of the hardest and most rewarding jobs in one's life is that of a parent. What about being a "bonus parent"? For those who are not familiar, a bonus parent is another name for step parent. Being one who was a bonus/step daughter twice around as well as being a bonus mom twice around, I have a little experience from both sides of the fence.

My first step/bonus dad, whom I lovingly refer to as "Pop" or "Pop-Pop" entered my life when I was 2 years old. Even though he and m...

Salaam/Peace,

One of the major challenges between wives in polygyny is the compare and compete game. There seems to be some unwritten code that states that because you are married to the same man you must be competitors. Competing and comparing can tend to bring out more insecurity than growth. Have you heard the saying, "Comparison is the thief of joy"? While that can be true, we can also use comparisons in an empowering way if we choose to.

I created a video that explains that in a lot more ...