Salaam/Peace Readers! 

Khalid always wanted a big family. He married his first wife, Safiya, right after launching his first business. Together, they started raising children while juggling tight schedules and the usual day-to-day trials. Despite the chaos, they had a loving home.

A few years later, Khalid decided to marry a second wife, Rachel. Even though he was financially stable and a solid leader, the transition wasn’t smooth. Safiya had to wrestle with her fears: Would I lose my place in...

They’re Having Sex… So What?

I want to share some thoughts on something that often gets overlooked in polygyny: the thoughts and worries running through your mind when you think about your husband being intimate with another wife.

The Reality of Polygyny

In a polygynous marriage, each wife has her own separate, sacred relationship with the husband. That’s normal. But yes, it can still sting when you imagine him spending intimate time with someone else, especially if you find yourself comparin...

Salaam/Peace! 

Marriage is a beautiful, complex journey of growth, love, and understanding, right? I’ve often found myself reflecting on how we communicate with one another, especially within the unique dynamics of polygyny. At times, we can feel like our spouse is speaking a completely different language, and no matter how much we try, we just aren’t getting through. That frustration of being misunderstood can feel isolating, and it can put a strain on even the most loving relationships.

I've...

Salaam/peace!

Are you feeling the love today? Or are you feeling obligated to stay in a relationship that just doesn't give you that warm, fuzzy feeling anymore? Well, you're in the right place because I'm here to share some wisdom on the topic!

First off, let's talk about the difference between a marriage of love and support versus one of obligation. It's simple really - in a marriage of love and support, you and your partner are there for each other through thick and thin because you genuine...

Polygyny is a marital system in which one man has multiple wives. It has been practiced in various cultures throughout history, and is still common today. One question that often arises in the context of polygynous marriages is whether or not co-wives should discipline each other's children. This is a complex issue that requires careful consideration.

In this video on the topic, I offer my thoughts on this matter. First I would like to begin by noting that in polygynous marriages, there is ofte...

Life can be unpredictable, and there are moments that can be incredibly challenging and difficult to navigate. However, these difficult moments often provide us with opportunities for growth and learning. In fact, some of the most profound lessons in life come from the hardest experiences. By staying open and looking for the lessons that these moments offer, we can find a new perspective on life that we may have never considered before.

One such moment of challenge and growth was experienced by...