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In today’s world, emotional intelligence is a skill that every wife must develop—especially in the unique dynamics of polygyny. Emotional intelligence goes beyond being emotional; it’s the ability to understand, manage, and navigate your own feelings while also being attuned to the emotions of others. As women, we may be wired to feel deeply, but that depth of feeling does not automatically equate to emotional intelligence.

In Western societies, many...

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As a husband in a polygyny, I’ve come to realize that true leadership is about more than just managing day-to-day responsibilities or making sure things are “fair.” It’s about guiding with wisdom, creating an environment where each wife is valued, and encouraging personal growth in everyone—including yourself.

Over time, I’ve learned that while leadership plays a huge role in maintaining harmony, it’s just as important for each wife to...

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Despite polygyny being an honorable form of marriage, many disagree with it; saying that it contributes to dysfunctional households, it's only beneficial to the husband, all of the like.

And some, oddly enough, prefer for a husband or wife to commit an immoral act - such as cheating - rather than get involved with polygyny. But they aren't anti-monogamy.

In this video, Coaches Nyla, Nazir, and Fatimah deep dive into how being "anti-polygyny" makes one, by default,...

A fun, inexpensive way to spend time with your family is by building dream boards with one another. For those who are unsure of what dream/vision boards are, they are as follows: "A dream board or vision board is a collage of images, pictures, and affirmations of one's dreams and desires, designed to serve as a source of inspiration and motivation." In this vlog styled video, we discuss the importance of dream building with family and instruct on ways to create vision boards that are...

In today's society polygyny is considered taboo. Many people believe it's an easy way to 'legally cheat' on their wives, that it brings destruction to families, only benefits the husband, and much more. However, I disagree. In this video, I unapologetically share why polygyny needs to be normalized in the West ASAP! "

Committed to helping you get your S.H.I.F.T. together, 

Coach Nazir

P.S. - Be sure to connect with us on our social media channels where we go live from time to time to...

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We have received many questions like: (jump to the video here)

• How do you find women interested in polygyny?
• What about the children?
• How do I deal with the stigma of being a "2nd" or subsequent wife?
• Do you live in the same house?
• How do I deal with jealousy?
• How can I help my wife understand why I want multiple wives?
• How much money do you need?
• What about feelings of guilt, betrayal, trauma?

We recorded a short video for you to check out HERE and we ask that you let us know...