They’re Having Sex… So What?

I want to share some thoughts on something that often gets overlooked in polygyny: the thoughts and worries running through your mind when you think about your husband being intimate with another wife.

The Reality of Polygyny

In a polygynous marriage, each wife has her own separate, sacred relationship with the husband. That’s normal. But yes, it can still sting when you imagine him spending intimate time with someone else, especially if you...

Practical Living Arrangements in Polygyny

Welcome back! In Part 1, we talked about managing jealousy in a polygynous marriage. Today, I want to address another common question: How do living arrangements work in polygyny? Specifically, should everyone live in the same house or have separate homes? Let’s dive into what works for our family and why.

In our situation, we’ve found that having separate homes works best. My co-wife and I live in different houses, but thankfully,...