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As a husband in a polygyny, I’ve come to realize that true leadership is about more than just managing day-to-day responsibilities or making sure things are “fair.” It’s about guiding with wisdom, creating an environment where each wife is valued, and encouraging personal growth in everyone—including yourself.

Over time, I’ve learned that while leadership plays a huge role in maintaining harmony, it’s just as important for each wife to...

The effects of social media can come in many forms- whether that be an addiction to social media, dependency, increased or decreased self-worth; the possibilities are endless. Many times, individuals even find themselves comparing their relationships to those seen on social media as well. In this video, we discuss the effects of social media in regards to relationships and how YOU must stay conscious of what you digest while scrolling through social media. 

~Coaches Nyla &...

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We get many questions regarding the children in polygyny. We have also seen comments about children being traumatized, negatively affected and confused about the dynamics of polygyny, including their connection with their father's "other wife or wives". The underlying tone to a number of the comments display an attitude of unknown sabotage that is usually the cause of the negative effects and confusion that the children may feel.

In this video, I talk about children &...

A fun, inexpensive way to spend time with your family is by building dream boards with one another. For those who are unsure of what dream/vision boards are, they are as follows: "A dream board or vision board is a collage of images, pictures, and affirmations of one's dreams and desires, designed to serve as a source of inspiration and motivation." In this vlog styled video, we discuss the importance of dream building with family and instruct on ways to create vision boards that are...

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A more than common occurrence in polygyny is choosing sides. Trying to pick whether the initial wife is the "victim" for her husband marrying another woman or if the incoming wife is a "homewrecker" for "intruding" in on a marriage, although her husband is practicing something that is permissible in Islam.

In this video, co-wives & Coaches Nyla and Fatimah have a discussion on pain in polygyny and the impact it has had in their lives.

You can watch the video HERE!...

Coach Fatimah & Nyla have been part of polygyny for 9 years and discuss how they manage stress and their household dynamics being different even though they are married to the same man, Coach Nazir.

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Many times when women discuss men being married to more than one woman, one knee jerk question tends to be, "why can't I have more than one husband?!"

Quick quips and reactive responses hardly are well thought out questions. Very few societies have ever practiced polyandry (women having more than one husband) and thrived. There are many reasons why but we focus on just a few reasons why it makes more sense to us why polygyny is more the natural way then other forms of polygamy.

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Many times when people choose to get involved in a polygynous marriage, children are involved. Sometimes the children are overlooked or their emotions and feelings to the adjustment may not be addressed.

The quality of life we live is usually based on the quality of our relationships. One of the most important and impactful relationships people have is the parent/child relationship. Polygyny not being the traditional form of marriage in today’s society can be challenging, not only for...