Salaam/Peace,

In the matter of all relationships, there are plenty of myths behind them. Take polygyny for example. Many think of it "dysfunctional" or "unfair" for all parties involved, that it's just the "legal way" to cheat, and one of the most popular of them all is that it's a way for women to enter into a marriage and be a 'homewrecker'.

All in all, today's society deems it as dysfunctional. In this video Coaches Nyla, Nazir, and Fatimah give their insight on the misconceptions...

 Salaam/Peace,

In the matter of all relationships, there are plenty of myths behind them. Take polygyny for example. Many think of it "dysfunctional" or "unfair" for all parties involved, that it's just the "legal way" to cheat, and one of the most popular of them all is that it's a way for women to enter into a marriage and be a 'homewrecker'.

All in all, today's society deems it as dysfunctional. In this video Coaches Nyla, Nazir, and Fatimah give their insight on the misconceptions...

Salaams/Peace,

Polygyny of course, comes with a multitude of challenges, such as: jealousy, assumptions, frustration, hurt feelings, trust issues and confusion.  Character assassination is yet just another one of those challenges to say the very least. You may be asking yourself, "Why is this an issue with co-wives?"  Unfortunately, one of the main reasons is, many people like to hurl accusations, assumptions and insults about a co-wife and her past because it makes them feel...

Salaam/Peace,

Despite polygyny being an honorable form of marriage, many disagree with it; saying that it contributes to dysfunctional households, it's only beneficial to the husband, all of the like.

And some, oddly enough, prefer for a husband or wife to commit an immoral act - such as cheating - rather than get involved with polygyny. But they aren't anti-monogamy.

In this video, Coaches Nyla, Nazir, and Fatimah deep dive into how being "anti-polygyny" makes one, by default,...

The effects of social media can come in many forms- whether that be an addiction to social media, dependency, increased or decreased self-worth; the possibilities are endless. Many times, individuals even find themselves comparing their relationships to those seen on social media as well. In this video, we discuss the effects of social media in regards to relationships and how YOU must stay conscious of what you digest while scrolling through social media. 

~Coaches Nyla &...

Salaams/Peace,

We get many questions regarding the children in polygyny. We have also seen comments about children being traumatized, negatively affected and confused about the dynamics of polygyny, including their connection with their father's "other wife or wives". The underlying tone to a number of the comments display an attitude of unknown sabotage that is usually the cause of the negative effects and confusion that the children may feel.

In this video, I talk about children &...

A fun, inexpensive way to spend time with your family is by building dream boards with one another. For those who are unsure of what dream/vision boards are, they are as follows: "A dream board or vision board is a collage of images, pictures, and affirmations of one's dreams and desires, designed to serve as a source of inspiration and motivation." In this vlog styled video, we discuss the importance of dream building with family and instruct on ways to create vision boards that are...

In today's society polygyny is considered taboo. Many people believe it's an easy way to 'legally cheat' on their wives, that it brings destruction to families, only benefits the husband, and much more. However, I disagree. In this video, I unapologetically share why polygyny needs to be normalized in the West ASAP! "

Committed to helping you get your S.H.I.F.T. together, 

Coach Nazir

P.S. - Be sure to connect with us on our social media channels where we go live from time to time to...

Salaam/Peace,

Healing from our past traumas is something we all must do in order to move forward to gain happiness and future success. Oftentimes we don't realize that if we wait to heal, we are actually prolonging the process; causing more pent up anger and possibly even rage. One of the most important things is especially the harmony that may come from our healing; inner peace is always priceless. In this video, I discuss how I discovered that waiting to heal placed much more "weight" on my...

Salaam/Peace,

Has there ever been a time, shoot, maybe multiple times, where you wished that your spouse was just a little different in some way? Have you ever thought to yourself, "maybe I can get him to change", or "if I did this, then he would be this way"? Has that ever worked for you? I know many of us may have these thoughts of wanting to change our spouse or spouses in some way or another and that is usually due to our selfish nature. Yes, I said it. In this video, I focus on the idea...