Can You Change Your Spouse?

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Has there ever been a time, shoot, maybe multiple times, where you wished that your spouse was just a little different in some way? Have you ever thought to yourself, "maybe I can get him to change", or "if I did this, then he would be this way"? Has that ever worked for you? I know many of us may have these thoughts of wanting to change our spouse or spouses in some way or another and that is usually due to our selfish nature. Yes, I said it. In this video, I focus on the idea o...

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ONE thing we learned from Polygyny?

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Whether you're monogamously married, married in polygyny, or single; life presents itself with many challenges. And with these challenges come and we always learn from them.

And this is especially true in polygyny; with this form of marriage, some may say there are even double the challenges and triumphs.Ā 

In this video,Ā Coaches Nyla, Nazir & Fatimah each share ONE thing they've learned in polygyny and the impact it has had in their lives.

Nyla, Nazir, & Fatimah

PS: If you w...

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Co-wives Discuss: Pain in Polygyny

Salaam/Peace,

A more than common occurrence in polygyny is choosing sides. Trying to pick whether the initial wife is the "victim" for her husband marrying another womanĀ or if the incoming wife is a "homewrecker" for "intruding" in on a marriage, although her husband is practicing something that is permissible in Islam.

In this video, co-wives & Coaches Nyla and Fatimah have a discussion on pain in polygyny and the impact it has had in their lives.

You can watch the videoĀ HERE!

If you have ...

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What We'd Advise Those Interested In Polygyny

Salaam/Peace,

We have received many questions like: (jump to the video here)

  • How do you find women interested in polygyny?
  • What about the children?
  • How do I deal with the stigma of being a "2nd" or subsequent wife?
  • Do you live in the same house?
  • How do I deal with jealousy?
  • How can I help my wife understand why I want multiple wives?
  • How much money do you need?
  • What about feelings of guilt, betrayal, trauma?

We recorded a short video for you to check out HERE and we ask that you le...

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