Why I Married A Married Man...

Salaam/Peace everyone, it’s Coach Nyla.

Today, I want to share some reflections on why I chose polygyny and address some common questions and misconceptions. Polygyny is often misunderstood, and I hope my insights can shed some light on its beauty and benefits.

When people ask me why I would want to marry an already married man or choose polygyny, my first knee-jerk reaction is to say, "Because I wanted to!", and "I’m grown." But there's much more to it.

After being married before and experiencing single motherhood, I found that polygyny offered me something unique and valuable.

Before entering into a polygynous marriage, I studied and read about it extensively. My first impressions were always positive.

Polygyny made sense to me as a different and beautiful way of marriage. I love big families and the concept of a community working together.

For me, polygyny was the best choice, offering a dynamic and supportive family structure.

Coming into polygyny with two children from previous relationships, I saw the potential for a larger, more supportive family.

My co-wife and I have developed a great relationship, and our family dynamic has become something beautiful.

Although it didn’t start out perfectly, I always saw the potential for growth and harmony.

If you’re considering polygyny, it’s essential to know that you can shape it into what you want it to be by working on yourself.

While you can’t control others, choosing wisely and continuing to work on yourself will attract the right people and situations.

Progress may be slow, but as long as you see improvement, it's worth sticking with it.

Choosing the right partner is crucial. If you work on yourself and understand your value, you’ll attract goodness into your life.

It’s about being ready to recognize and embrace the gifts that come your way. By speaking up and addressing issues, you can build a strong, supportive family.

Polygyny offers many benefits, from the support of a larger family to the opportunity for personal growth.

It’s about more than just having your own time; it’s about building a community and raising children in a loving, supportive environment.

Now, I want to delve deeper into how to build a supportive polygynous community. A strong community is essential for the success and harmony of polygynous families.

I’ve always believed in the saying, "It takes a village to raise a child."

A supportive community is crucial in polygyny. It provides a network of people who can offer advice, support, and encouragement. This communal approach ensures that everyone benefits from shared experiences and collective wisdom.

A positive environment starts with the individuals involved. By working on yourself and fostering good relationships, you contribute to a supportive community.

It's about being caring, giving, and humble, and raising children to embody these values by setting a good example.

Challenges are inevitable in any family, but a supportive community can help navigate them more effectively.

Open communication, mutual respect, and collective problem-solving are key. It’s important to work together, support each other, and celebrate progress, no matter how small.

Self-improvement is a continuous journey. By focusing on becoming the best version of yourself, you positively impact those around you.

This self-improvement attracts positive energy and helps create a harmonious community. It’s about striving for personal growth so that everyone can benefit.

Building a supportive polygynous community requires effort, communication, and a commitment to self-improvement.

By working together and fostering positive relationships, you can create a loving and supportive environment for everyone involved.

One of the beautiful aspects of polygyny is the balance between individual and family time.

While having your own time is a great benefit, the focus on community and family is equally important. I love the big family dynamic and the support system it provides. It’s about creating a balance that works for everyone.

Living in a polygynous marriage has taught me the importance of continuous self-improvement. By working on myself, I’ve been able to contribute positively to my family and community.

It’s a journey of growth and learning, and I strive to become a better person every day.

Polygyny has allowed us to raise our children in a loving and supportive environment. By modeling humility, care, and cooperation, we teach our children valuable life lessons.

It’s about showing them how to work together and support each other, fostering a sense of community and belonging.

Choosing polygyny was a decision that brought many positive changes to my life. It’s about more than just having your own time; it’s about building a supportive community, raising children with strong values, and continuously improving yourself.

Polygyny has been a rewarding journey, and I’m grateful for the experiences and growth it has brought.

Polygyny offers many benefits, from the support of a larger family to the opportunity for personal growth.

It’s about building a community and raising children in a loving, supportive environment. I hope my reflections have given you some insights into the beauty and complexity of polygyny.

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As always, make sure you are growing intentionally, loving fearlessly, and connecting on a higher level every single day. Together, we can build strong, harmonious polygynous families.